As a couple, you have probably already formed ideas about how you would want to organise everyday life with a child. But there are worlds of difference between theory and practice. From the time your baby arrives home, all your expectations fly out the window. Most fathers are struck by the fact that someone else is now their partner's first priority. And since dads can't breastfeed, the baby  naturally focusses more on the mom. Just as your child is developing, you too must now grow into your new role.

Sure, the bond between mother and child is something very special. But in principle, mothers and fathers can read their baby's needs equally well. They both know if their little one is screaming because of hunger, separation anxiety, or simply a wet nappy. And if they each take care of the newborn equally, the baby also feels closely connected to both. In short: from the very first second, your baby will be looking for warmth and affection from their dad. All you have to do is grab their little hand and give them your love.